MEN WAKE UP!!

I am begging all of you dysfunctional, emotionally scarred men of color to GET HELP!!  I am tried of seeing these stories of beautiful young families breaking up because a man does not know how to control his emotions.  They scare their women and children to the point where they need to take out restraining orders? They are limited in their access to their children, who they love and who love them dearly. It is just a total breakdown of the family structure.  I ask who is going to be that man that speaks to these young men and try to let them know it is OK to seek help.  This is deeper than we think and cannot be ignored.  

It has been reported that Eva Marcille was granted full custody after putting a restraining order on her fiance Kevin McCall after he allegedly flew into a rampage breaking down doors and trying to pry their baby girl out of Eva's arms.

Tiffney Cambridge recently had her physical run in with The Game, which led to him complaining of not being able to see his kids and a restraining order being filed against him. 

 And of course we have the much publicized Columbus Short who just has seem to have completely lost his mind along with his job on the hit ABC TV show Scandal. He no longer has access to his own home after allegedly threatening his wife's life and he later broke in and ransacked their home.

But how do men advance when they have fools like DL Hughley, who is older and should KNOW BETTER speaking on Short's domestic situation?  He said: 

“The star of one of the hottest dramas in the country, chokes the f*ck out of his wife? That doesn’t ever happen. I don’t think it happened first off. Like the time Warren Sapp was getting ready to do the Super Bowl and some broad said that he raped her. There are just as many examples of women lying on men in the middle of divorce proceedings to get what they want, as there are men who actually do anything. My point is if he did what she’s alleging he did, she could still get all that she’s going to have and not bring it up now, when it damages his market value that she’s going to be impacted by. If he loses that job nobody’s living in Calabasas anymore.”  

Hughley goes on to say: “I guarantee you, three years from now she’s going to be thinking, “Damn, I should have shut the f*ck up. Cuz women always running out the mouth when they shouldn’t.”  - See more at: http://madamenoire.com/424720/d-l-hughley-calls-columbus-shorts-wife-a-thirsty-btch-who-should-just-shut-the-fck-up/#sthash.sV7RWKWF.dpuf

I have seen men's anger in my own personal life, and I get it men are fragile creatures more than they want to admit, so why don't they do what they need to do and find the support amongst each other that they need and find a way to direct this aggression into positive forms before they lose everything that have worked for and everyone they love?

-KD