Why Black People Aren't Getting Married

Interesting blog, but if you want my thoughts
1) There are too many options, way too many heauxs;
2) Relationships take real work that these men do not want any part of; and
3) Most of these young men and women do not have their mental, spiritual and financial selves together so its hard to move together as a unit when this is lacking...
http://normalisdead.tumblr.com/post/15520504327/6-reasons-black-people-arent-getting-married

Is Kayne Krazy?

I watched Kayne perform this week at the Oracle Arena in Oakland and I must say I left well......confused.  I will say Kayne made sure this show was visually STUNNING!  I mean it really was the most elaborate set and the costumes and masks....yes masks, he had on a mask for the majority of the show.  Jeweled and designed by Masion Martin Margiela but still masks....Kris Jenner was in attendance and was well received and other than a couple of technical glitches with sound the show was a spectacle.  He goes into a rant of course because that's what Yeezy or Yezzus or whatever does,  but he talks about his faith in God and then its like ok Kayne you have sense after all......but then came Jesus....but no not just Jesus "White Jesus".....really Kayne? I guess it was kind of funny and he went straight into "Jesus Walks" and let me tell you after White Jesus comes he takes off that masks and does the JAMS, I mean him doing "Flashing Lights" was enough for me!! But then it gets weird again, him along with his dancers (or background models?) bow to White Jesus, for a LONG TIME, at this point I was done with the show as it was already midnight.

I left wondering well quite a few things, I mean what was he trying to convey in this show full of religious imagery I mean I know the album is "Yeezus" he sings "I am a God" so I know it is within the theme of the album.  He is an artist and let me tell you he displays his artistry all in this show from this outfits to the stage to the songs.  With him though you always wonder if its something DEEPER, should I pray and repent for attending? Lord help us all!!

Heartbreak Hotel

Question of the Week:

Have you ever been cheated on?  Have you ever cheated on your spouse or significant other?  Why or why not and was was the consequences of your actions? Let's speak on it!

Any Questions?

For years I have wanted to talk to those lost in love, confused, hurt or just needing guidance on the next steps in life.  Not because I am any type of expert, but because I have a solid foundation in common sense and have been able to make some stable decisions in my life and have been able to assist those around me.  As much as I want to help others I also want to learn what other people go through and possibly learn from their experiences.  I hope to one day build a forum one day to be able to do this as often as I please and I hope that others join me in this journey of discussion and seeking guidance in our everyday experiences and learning to find the best paths to navigate this road called life.